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2009 - The fabulous year that will be...

I dunno, but I feel positive about the coming year. I know 2008 has been a bummer for everyone. With the recession being felt worldwide, there's a palpable stress in the air. But without stress, difficulties and all this brouhaha, no change will come. Without change, we might as well be dead. Change is what we must crave for and that's what 2009 for me is all about. The list below contains some insights that I want to fix in the coming year...

1. I think, therefore I am...
A change in attitude for me is to take things more lightly :) Not to overthink things. To just really go with the flow.... no stress, no expectations and no worries. But there must always be a big plan... but the key is not to worry too much on the details. Create a plan, create a picture on your mind and just let the universe unfold as it should. Work at it with all your heart and don't let anything blind you in achieving your goal.

2. Love, just love without knowing why.
Love is a choice but I learned that we must be extra careful in choosing the object of our affection. Life is short, the heart is frail so think first, assess, and then dig in and love :) Don't be in a hurry to be in romantic bliss... we have all the time in the world. This period is the time when you build your character with each person that the universe sends. And when you're whole, then the right one will come :) Another thing, I learned that, we must know when to quit someone... it takes two to tango and it can be tiring if your partner is stuck on the floor.. :)

3. All workouts are created equal.
I have been an exercise nut ever since college. I realized that it all takes discipline. Not just keeping tabs on your workout schedule but what you put inside your body. I am not saying that I will stop eating foods that I really love but all must be taken in moderation :) Yes, even smoking :) That my dear, I don't think I can ever, ever give up just yet :) So, a goal this year is to finish the half marathon again. And sadly, I realized that weight lifting is really not for me.


I am still young and there's so much to see and experience. I will go to a desert... that I know... heck... I would dance, dance, dance, as long as the music plays.... I just have to be in step in the dance of life :)

AmEn! :)


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