"FRieNdsHiPs ArE LiKe GlAsS... It MiGhT bE BeTtEr To Be BrOkEn Up ThAn To GeT hUrT TrYiNg To PuT iT bAcK ToGeThEr."
September 28, 2018 - I officially turned 40. I guess I just want to write something about this event in my life so I could look back on what were my thoughts and probably when I turn 50 (or older), laugh at my silliness.
Leading up to this day, I was quite excited. Months before, I would try to plan how I am going to celebrate this day with friends. It's a milestone age. I should be thankful that I reached this age in good health, and with my sanity intact. But then, as the days draw nearer I felt a crippling sadness. I tried to google my way to find some answers on why I felt this sudden rush of panic and anxiety as the reality of turning 40 was dawning on me. And I found out that I was not alone.
What made me sad all of a sudden? Well, many thoughts flooded my brain. Firstly, my career. I realised I had to think of my next move. I have shifted to a less technical role and this is not something I am really good at. Business analysis is somewhat new to me. My comfort zone was t…
Leading up to this day, I was quite excited. Months before, I would try to plan how I am going to celebrate this day with friends. It's a milestone age. I should be thankful that I reached this age in good health, and with my sanity intact. But then, as the days draw nearer I felt a crippling sadness. I tried to google my way to find some answers on why I felt this sudden rush of panic and anxiety as the reality of turning 40 was dawning on me. And I found out that I was not alone.
What made me sad all of a sudden? Well, many thoughts flooded my brain. Firstly, my career. I realised I had to think of my next move. I have shifted to a less technical role and this is not something I am really good at. Business analysis is somewhat new to me. My comfort zone was t…
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eto ba yung si ano? :) well, then I would have to agree, hehehe!
I just want to share a perspective with you quickly - I do believe that people come into our lives exactly when we need them and for a reason. They also move out of our lives at exactly the "right" time. That might be suddenly or it might be a drift, or perhaps they walk along side us the whole way ...
Why did this person come into your life in the first place? What is it the "Universe" wanted you to learn from this person? Did you learn it? Is this the lesson now?
I could be a million miles off base. But then again, perhaps I came into your life just to pass you this message. Or not....
thanks for ur advise! i really appreciate ur concern.
thanks again!